Frequently Asked Questions

Mediation

  • Mediation is a voluntary, confidential process that helps people resolve disputes constructively without going to court. In the UK, mediation is widely used in family, civil, workplace, community, and commercial disputes as a faster, more cost-effective, and less adversarial alternative to litigation.

    Mediation involves an independent, professionally trained mediator who facilitates structured discussions between parties in conflict. The mediator does not take sides, make judgments, or impose decisions. Instead, they help clarify issues, explore options, and support the parties in reaching their own mutually acceptable agreement.

    Mediation in the UK is guided by principles of:

    • Voluntariness – Participation is voluntary (except where attendance at an initial meeting may be required).

    • Confidentiality – Discussions are private and without prejudice.

    • Impartiality – The mediator remains neutral and independent.

    • Self-determination – The outcome is decided by the parties, not by the mediator.

  • Mediation is suitable for many disputes, but not all. It may not be appropriate in cases involving serious safeguarding concerns, domestic abuse (subject to assessment), or where a party is unwilling to engage.

    A professional mediator will always assess whether mediation is safe, fair, and appropriate before proceeding.

    • Cost-effective compared to court proceedings

    • Faster resolution

    • Reduced stress and conflict

    • Greater control over outcomes

    • Improved communication and future relationships

    • Confidential and private process

Wills

  • You die "intestate," meaning your estate is distributed according to state/national law, not your wishes. Unmarried partners or cohabitants often inherit nothing.

  • Yes, you can update or create a new will anytime circumstances change. Significant changes usually require a new will.

  • Choose someone trustworthy—often family, friends, or professionals—to handle the administration of your estate.

  • Not usually. A will outlines instructions for the probate process, but it does not bypass the need for it.

  • No, your debts (mortgages, loans, credit cards) must be paid from your estate before beneficiaries receive their inheritance.

  • Yes, you can appoint a guardian to look after your children.

  • Due to the nature of the services I provide, the cost will be subject to different variable factors, therefore will be on a quote basis.